what is this, the 1940s?

‘Listen up ladies’: Fox News kids off New Year with absurdly sexist advice for ‘catering to your man’

Not that anything said on Faux New is at all legitimate… but it’s continually perplexing how anyone could think that advice like this, structured in this manner, directed as it is, could be construed as something that is okay to say – especially to a huge audience. Especially in a day and age when “wife” so frequently means so much more than stay-at-home domestic partner and women are frequently carrying more than their weight in family responsibilities. The only way I can think to show how ridiculous this stuff sounds is to change the pronouns:

Yeah, I do want to be a better husband.

When she gets her ego stroked, she’ll be more inclined to love you more.

One way a man could stroke a woman’s ego would be to “prepare her meals, draw her a bath and massage her feet every now and then.

Of course a healthy relationship is one that involves both partners taking care of each other without expecting anything in return because they love each other, as Earhardt points out. But women are always the ones on the receiving end of advice like this, bearing the brunt of keeping her partner happy and the relationship going. That’s not how real relationships work.

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4 thoughts on “what is this, the 1940s?

  1. Fox News is just awful. It’s so socially backwards and almost from another century. I don’t want to even think about the people who watch it and blindly accept it as “news.”

  2. Wow. As a guy, a completely submissive female is a turn-off to me. I’m afraid she would be suppressing her own personality so much that it would make the relationship boring. I want a girl who’s vibrant and alive, not some Stepford-wife robot.

    (not a male feminist, just a practical guy)

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